There has been a lot of questions around the reason for the high incidence of divorce these days. If you ask me, I think that one
of the main reasons is that a lot of people who desire to marry do not realize the full import of that decision they are making
and they walk in blindly into it because of peer and societal pressures. The fact remains that 99% of the persons who get married
have not been adequately informed about the demands that come with getting married, they are only thinking about the wedding gowns,
wedding day, asoebi, and photoshoot. Marriage is not for children and every single lady must seek to understand perfectly what
they are going into before they say I do. While the single lady is responsible just for herself and has 24 hours of her day all
to herself which she can apply towards personal development and all other forms of development, the married lady is saddled with
responsibilities of husband and children and may not even get 1hr out of 24hrs to herself. The married lady does not have all
the time she needs to develop herself if she failed to do that while she was single. You will realize that your 24 hours will
be given to cleaning, cooking, washing, chores, homework, bathing the kids, school run, hospital, nanny shouting, shouting at the
children, following up on the husband, following up on side chicks, quarreling and making up with the husband, engaging with inlaws
matters and all forms of village troubles, thinking about the sex of the baby, thinking and planning how many children she should
have or not have, pregnancy, failed pregnancies, traumatic births, caesarian sections, after birth traumas, working on her weight
after each pregnancy, attending to any child that has a disability or other health challenges, globe-trotting (if your husband has
a job that takes him around the globe), the list becomes endless………………………………….

My dear single lady, this is your best time to make the most of the precious gift of time God has given to you. Instead of wasting
time engaging in endless vigils for husbands, getting sad and depressed over your singleness, let us rather commit that time to
continuous learning and development, travel around if you can afford it, learn a new skill, build your business, discover your calling
and pursue it with every energy in you, as you get busy doing the things you love, you will eliminate the chances of meeting the
wrong partners….