A lot of ladies think that when they marry, all their problems will be gone as the man is going to start solving them. I am sorry, that may only be the beginning of her woes….

In this world, everyone is actually thinking of themselves first. You just need to note this. Nobody is thinking about your problems or how to solve them for you.

That man is happy to have you at least now he doesn’t need to spend on feeding outside as there is now one to make that food in his home, and that is you, also, he can have enjoy his free and legal sex without begging the lady or paying to get it, at least he has paid the dowry or maybe not.

Many young women married one rich guy or a man they feel is rich because they believe the man would solve their problems and upgrade their lives. By the time the get into his home, it is a totally different story. They never get to enjoy any riches and it is all tales of woe.

Dear lady, you need to learn how to own your problem and solve them. Firstly because this is what every human being owes themselves.

I need you to know that the value you have brought with you into the marriage is most times all you get. If you do not know how to build on that value, that may be all you get.

This value I mean here is – if all you had was a secondary school, that may be all you get, if it was only a university degree, that may be all you get, if all you had was your business, that may be all you get, infact the little money you saved for yourself in that business may be taken from you!

Just know that marriage does not wipe away your problems, rather, it brings new problems into your life which you may not have prepared yourself for.

The best you can do for yourself dear ladies is to learn to own and solve your problems.